Wednesday, September 4, 2013

4 Ways Grandparents Can Empower Grandchildren

The relationship between grandchildren and their grandparents is a quite remarkable thing. Growing kids often love spending weekends and summertime holidays with their grandparents, and the number of things that children learn from these seniors is vast. As we celebrate National Grandparents Day on the eighth of this month, let's look at some of the ways in which senior care professionals have noted that grandparents are able to empower their grandchildren.

  1. Giving children the gift of self-confidence. Few people love as unconditionally as grandparents—and few people need such love as today's growing youth. Self-esteem is often a problem with kids who aren't sure about their place in the world or who feel as though they may or may not quite fit in with their peers. A grandparent's love and encouragement, though, can help grandchildren understand their individual worth and recognize that they are loved—and worthy of being loved. 
  2. Teaching children about their heritage. Cultural roots are strong in many families, and it is important for kids to understand where their ancestors came from in order to truly embrace the traditions that their loved ones follow. Giving children a sense of belonging by explaining their heritage can empower them to learn more and forge a stronger personal identity.  
  3. Exposing children to new ideas and challenging them to overcome difficulties. New ideas are thrown at kids each and every day, as they fight to overcome peer pressure and try to determine what is and isn't valuable with regard to the messages promoted by modern media. But in all this there are a few key ideas that are often overlooked, including compassion, kindness, and empathy. Grandchildren are certain to encounter challenges as they grow, but with these and other ideas instilled in them they can better navigate the world with sensitivity and a keen understanding of the experiences of others. 
  4. Encouraging children to embrace their talents. From art to dance to music, children have a wide range of talents that allow them to express themselves and improve their confidence. But it is important that kids know it is a good thing to do so. For those grandchildren who may not fit the mold into which some people may want to put them (i.e. girls wanting to play hockey instead of dance) it can be difficult. By encouraging their grandchildren, grandparents can help them see that all of their talents are valuable and should be explored.

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